How to Be the Best Dive Buddy: 5 Expert Tips for Safer Dives
Kelly Dananay Feb 21, 2025
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Hi there, fellow ocean adventurers! I’m Kelly, a scuba instructor at Ocean First. With Valentine's Day around the corner, I’ve been reflecting on what it means to the best dive buddy. While this isn’t about romance, it is about care—the kind of care that makes diving safe, fun, and unforgettable. Scuba diving is an incredible experience, but like many great things in life, it’s even better when shared. That’s why being a good dive buddy is so important. I asked some of my fellow Ocean First instructors what they value most in a dive buddy. Their insights, paired with my own experiences, will hopefully help you level up your buddy game.
1. Be an Extra Set of Eyes – Scuba Safety Starts with a Buddy
Mark Duvall says, “A good buddy is like having an extra set of eyes—someone who watches out for you before, during, and after the dive to help keep you safe and out of trouble.”
Let’s face it—we’re all human. A piece of gear might not be fastened properly, or maybe we’re so mesmerized by a sea turtle that we don’t notice the group is moving along. That’s where a good buddy comes in. They’ve got your back, and you’ve got theirs. Together, you can prevent small mistakes from turning into big problems, keeping your dive fun and worry-free.
2. Trust is Key to Being a Great Dive Buddy
Amy, Travel Manager, shared, “The best buddies are trustworthy, fun, and have compatible dive plans.”
Trust is the foundation of any great dive buddy relationship. Can you count on them to communicate clearly? Do they stick to the plan you both agreed on? Bonus points if they’re someone who makes you laugh during your surface interval—because who doesn’t love a good laugh between dives?
3. Align Your Goals
General Manager and Instructor Trainer, Sage Dalton, emphasized the importance of “similar dive goals.”
This one’s big! Whether you’re all about macro photography, exploring wrecks, or just cruising along a coral reef, having a buddy who shares your objectives makes for a smoother, more enjoyable dive. Discuss your dive plans before hitting the water to ensure you’re on the same page to avoid complications and fully enjoy your underwater experience.
4. A Good Dive Buddy Always Speaks Up for Safety
One of Ocean First's newest instructors, Ruli, puts it perfectly: “A great dive buddy isn’t afraid to say ‘no’ when something doesn’t feel right. Being comfortable and safe always comes first.”
Diving should never feel like a competition. It’s okay to admit when conditions aren’t right for you, and a good buddy will respect that. Remember, safety always comes first. Speak up if something doesn’t feel right—it’s better to skip a dive than to risk a dangerous situation.
5. Check Your Ego at the Surface
Oscar’s input was spot-on: “A good dive buddy has no ego and is always willing to learn.”
Scuba diving is a lifelong learning journey. Nobody knows everything, and even experienced divers make mistakes. Being open to feedback and eager to learn not only makes you a better diver but also a better buddy.
My Golden Rules for Being a Great Buddy:
Communicate Clearly: Use hand signals to communicate confidently underwater and check in with your buddy often.
Be Prepared: Check your gear and help your buddy check theirs. A thorough buddy check can prevent mishaps. Not sure if you should rent or buy gear? Check out this guide.
Stay Close, but Not Too Close: Maintain good proximity so you can assist if needed without crowding their space.
Share the Experience: Point out cool critters, share your excitement, and celebrate the dive together.
Be Kind: Sometimes, your buddy might be nervous or tired. A little empathy goes a long way.
Diving is one of the most rewarding adventures you can share with someone else. Being a good dive buddy isn’t just about following rules; it’s about creating an experience that’s fun and safe for both of you. So the next time you gear up, ask yourself: How can I be the buddy I’d want by my side?
Happy diving, and I hope to see you underwater soon!
—Kelly
Want to learn more about being a great buddy? Join Ocean First's Dive Buddy Mixer in Boulder on Feb 27, 2025.
